A power exchange relationship always ends with one person being submissive to the others needs and wants. Society sadly shames men for not being the bread winner, the one always in control, and the strong one. I’ve learned a lot in my sessions and will share a few secrets with you. Some of the most powerful men in the world crave that behind the door time where they hand over all their control to another. Like most, I grew up thinking that was weak and sad. Boy, did I learn a lot about the secret therapy that some seek on the other end of the phone line.
A submissive man for the most part is usually a professional. He is not the blue collar worker who pops a cold one open after a long day at work. He is the one sitting behind the bosses desk making the company strive to be better. It’s the cop who puts his life on the line every day to keep others safe and the world a better place. A submissive man is the Lawyer, Doctor, or even President who can’t let his guard down and has to live in a bottle of blood pressure medicine. Sadly as a society we think if they need a little help, their weak. Being is submissive is the strongest one in the relationship and they one who holds the most power. I bet you never thought about that, did you?
Why do they want to give up all the power?
Imagine living in a world where your suffocating by always having to be the best and unable to let anyone know you need a break. Now imagine for an hour a day, week, or month that you can hand over that control to someone else. Would a CEO get on his knees and beg to kiss the feet of a woman, or to be spanked by a bad little boy? No, but there is freedom when you do. Most of us were spanked as children for doing something bad. A time where we were young, no commitments or responsibilities. Mommy would put you over her knee and spank that ass. Back then no one wanted a spanking, but now, men are craving them. It allows them a brief few moments back to a time where they had no responsibilities.
Submissive people crave this release.
Now I am not saying every white collar worker is a submissive, or every blue collar worker is a dominate, but think about it. Even Christian Gray was submissive to the right woman.
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