Let me first start by telling you that if you’re sensitive to ageplay, then this might be where you want to stop. Some sites including niteflirt do not allow this form of roleplay. I as a writer wanted to address the terminology. Please ask your phone girl before you assume she is okay with this fetish.
I want to begin this blog by making a confession. I have worked in the sex industry for a long time now. Before anyone jumps to the conclusion that I am a whore, let me address that as well. Yes, yes, I am and it’s time that I stop hiding the fact that I sell sex for a living. No, I am not standing on a street corner or even visiting men in hotel rooms. I am that girl that you call late at night and confess your dirty secrets to. The girl who knows everything that you want to tell your wife, but you can’t out of fear. I want to get rid of one of the long standings lies that we are all a bunch of old ladies laying on the couch and popping bon bons while the kids are at school. Total lie! So, now that we have addressed that, let’s get into the fetish of daddy daughter/ daddy little girl. Before you run away, just know that this is more common than you would think.
What is dd/dlg?
DDLG, or DD/LG, is an acronym for daddy dom/little girl, a sexual relationship where the dominant male is the daddy figure, and a woman plays the role of a young girl. (dictionary.com)
Are you still lost? Don’t feel bad. Many people stop right here and label this “sick”. It’s roleplay in the bedroom, and no minors are hurt in the process. Both the “daddy” and the “daughter” are will participants in this fetish. Each may be there for a different reason, but in the end, they both are feeding a need that otherwise would be illegal.
Who is involved in this community?
It would surprise you how many men and women hide little boxes in the back of their closet that contain fetish wear other people would never understand. There is nothing to be ashamed of, and letting the mind feed the needs is healthy. Have you ever heard that “if you bottle that up, you’re going to explode”? It would surprise you how many people enjoy this kink but are too afraid to tell anyone. Maybe even your husband or wife. Never say never, and remember, I am the one they tell those secrets too.
Is this fetish legal?
Yes, God yes. Remember, this is all a mind fuck, and everyone is a consenting adult over the age of 18 can roleplay dd/dlg.
How does one get started?
Trust, trust, trust, you can’t play without it. There are so many forms of this fetish that the first thing you need to remember is to have good communication with your partner. Know ahead of time if this is just a nurture relationship or is this going to be sexual? Will penetration occur and is there a limit to how far the other party is willing to go? Some only seek cuddles and soothing words, where others want full submission to their daddy dominate. Know where you are going before you travel down the path of dd/dlg roleplay.
Dd/dlg terminology:
Credit here given HERE.
Who is involved in this community?
DDLG: Dominate daddy/ little girl
DDLB: Dominate daddy/ little boy+
DMLG: Dominate mommy/ little girl
DMLB: Dominate mommy/ little boy
Little: The person taking on the younger role.
Middle: The person in the younger role, but older than a little.
Safe word: They should always establish a word before the play begins that tells the partner that the other person is not okay with the scene. Both should respect this word and stop when used.
There is so much to be added here, but the main thing I want to say is to open up to your partner. Share the kinks, desires, and fetishes. More than likely, they are afraid to share theirs as well. A healthy sex life begins in the mind not the bedroom.
Let me know if you want to hear more about the world of phone sex. I can’t give names, but the juicy details are shocking!
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